Question:
Is this boy stalking me? What should I do?
αllísσn
2009-12-10 13:07:12 UTC
Ok, I have asked this question a couple of times before, but now this boy has taken it a step further, and I am really scared and creeped out!
There is this boy, his name is Brock, and he went to my elementary school for like 5 years, from kindergarten to 4th grade. He got held back a year, because he is now a freshmen, I am a sophomore in high school. Over the summer, I started to get texts from him, they started off normal, just saying hi and making small talk(I don't really like him as a friend, but I was talking to him to be nice.) He told me how he was going to go to my high school the upcoming year. Then, he started texting me saying that I need to call him because he wants to hear my voice. When I wouldn't call him, he would call me, but I wouldn't answer so he would leave a voice mail. In them, he said how he missed me, and just wanted to hear my voice and how we should hangout. Then, he started asking me to send him pictures of me. I wouldn't send him any, so he started sending me pictures of him, he sent pictures of his face, abs, and other body parts. Then he stopped texting me for about 3 weeks, then right before school started, he started again. Now that school has started, I see him everywhere. At my school, freshmen and sophomores eat lunch together, and he always walks somewhere close to my table and watches me for a little bit before he goes and sits down(he usually watches me from the lunch line). Also, he stands by my locker(not right next to it, but close to it) and watches me everyday after school. He still texts me about how we need to meet up, that he wants to see alone, he wants to hear my voice, but I still don't respond.
He had stopped texting me for 3 months, but monday he sent me a forward message. Tuesday he texted me saying hi, being polite, I said hi back. He asked me what I was doing, and I told him I had just gotten out of the shower and was going to change, he replied saying "I bet you look good naked." I didn't respond. Today I saw him in the hall and glanced at him. After school he texted me saying "Why didn't you say hi to me today at school?" I told him that I didn't hear him say hi. He then said "Well I did, next you should say hi." Then, he started asking me if I have a boyfriend, and I told him no. Then, he asked me if I would want a boyfriend, and I told him it depends on how I feel at the moment, what is going on in my life, and who the boy was. He texted me asking me to be his girlfriend. I didn't reply. Then, he repeatedly sent me messages asking if I was there. When I finally responded saying let me think about, he asked wy. I aid I am not sure if I want a boyfriend yet and that I would need to sleep over it. He replied saying "Let me know by 10." I told him my phone was going to die because I left my charger at my friends house. He said "Oh, then I will talk to you after school." Then he started asking me if I had homework, I said no. He said that we should meet up somewhere, but I said my parents would get mad, since then, he hasn't texted me back.
I am really scared that he will do something. He gets all defensive and angry when I answer a question how he don't want me to answer it.
On thursday night, I got a 5 forward messages from him. They were all about send me a rose to everyone you love, and best friends, and stuff like that.
Then, on friday he texted me and he said "hey grumpy" I asked him why he called me grumpy and he said "you didn't give me hug, asked for hug and you didn't give me one, everyone gave me a hug except for you." I then asked him what he meant and he said "never mind."
Just yesterday, he texted me and said the usual, "Hey." Just the day before, his signature was C.S.H.S. soccer #17, when he sent this, it was nothing. I responded saying hi, I was planning to tell him to stop texting me. When he responded, saying "what you doing" his signature was She is my everything. I asked him who is his everything and he wouldn't say, so I continued to ask him, he finally said his ex. So I asked if you like me so much, why is she still your everything? He said "She Was my everything" and this time his signature said She Was my everything.
Then, he tried calling me but I didn't answer. He texted me saying "Answer" I didn't respond and he continued to send the same text, finally he said "That is it." A few minutes later, he texted me again saying "please call me, I need to talk to you." Once again, I didn't respond. When I woke up this morning, I turned on my phone, and he had sent me 5 text messages, all asking me to call him. The time they were sent were from 9:03-1:46. I also had a voice mail from him, so I listened to it, it said "Hey, why aren't you answer your phone? I gave you a reason. Or at least text back please! Ok well, call me back I guess. Bye."
Also, I am starting to see him more and more during school, like when we switch classes, eat lunch, and even after school; each time, I look down and don't make eye contact with him.
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Three answers:
CountryGirl
2009-12-10 13:29:20 UTC
WOW! I didn't think I would read the whole thing but I did. I think he is just in love with you. I would not consider it stalking. I had kind of the same thing happen to me a few years ago so I know how to handle it now. You need to stop texting him back because you are sending him mixed signals by one minute talking to him and the next ignoring him. Just tell him that he is scaring or freaking you out and you don't want to call him or talk to him any more, then he might understand but if he doesn't he will probably text you and try to call you but you need to not respond at all eventually he will understand and move on to someone else it might take a few months but trust me it will work. Remember in order for this to work you need to tell him what I told you to say then completely ignore his messages. If you can't ignore the messages and the calls talk to your parents to see if they can change your number or have it blocked from him. Good Luck
cowsert
2016-09-10 16:18:46 UTC
I actually suppose you must document this to the police, you will have most likely no suggestion what possibly in retailer in your pal's pal. This would end up particularly terrible if movement isn't taken rapidly, or no less than to the mothers and fathers of the child who's stalking your pal's pal.
rejectedsoul
2009-12-10 13:24:25 UTC
too long



get over your shallow egotistical behind hes not stalking you



you lead him on



you need to grow up and come down off your pedestal and be up front with him

he has a thing for you



grow up girl

this was way to long to read also

hes 15 so are you

act like it kill the drama and it him down and BE NICE ABOUT IT AND TELL HIM I DONT LIKE YOU AND I DONT WANT TO BE FRIENDS.



let me guess hes an honor student never in trouble and not hot like some jock at school



news flash

in 10 years that jock will be dead or in jail

hes a walking std

and drug addict all jocks use steroids

looks fade

your looks will too

your outside maybe pretty but your insides are dead



show this boy some respect and let him down nicely

hes not stalking you. you lead him on



remember the nerds and geeks are who the rich people are.

jocks that go pro end up in debt and are abusers


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