Please answer, serious problem concerning my mother?

Question

So my mom was dating a firefighter and tonight, my mother came home at two in the morning and told me that she was done seeing him for good. When I asked why, she told me it was because he got abusive with her. He apparently hit her, pulled her hair, urinated in her car, tore a crucifix she had hanging from her mirror and broke it. He also tried to break her car window. I honestly don't know if this is the first time this has happened because I never see him anymore.
And she went to the police who didn't do jacksh*t. He was able to just talk his way out of it, the police just let him go saying my mother could file a restraining order and go to court in the morning. And that's bull because anyone else would've been held for at least 24 hours if I'm correct. A slap on the wrist isn't nearly enough for what happened to my mother. He should've been thrown in jail tonight. Firefighters shouldn't be above the law. Police officers are supposed to protect and serve and tonight they failed. I don't know where to go or what to do, but all I know is that he needs to pay for what he did to my mother. My mother isn't safe as long as he is free. This is a man who has choked his father, beat his mother, and they didn't do anything. He has learned that that there are no consequences for his actions, but I refuse to accept this. If there is any advice you can give me, I really need it and would appreciate it.

Answer 1

Your mother should go to government hospital and on asking should tell the whole story to the Doctor sitting there. She should also photographed her car etc. and after this file a detailed complaint including the mobile numbers your mother and that firefighter is using - This is for the current act. However, if you like to stop him for future, it is true you should have a restrain order from the Hon'ble Court restraining that firefighter coming to your home or to the places like your mother's office or her parents house or like. Restraining him from even calling you etc.

Answer 2

Here's my advice. These injuries and damages are a very small price to pay to be rid of a violent monster. I would stay away from him . If he leaves her alone don't even file the restraining order. He sounds insane. If he attacked his own mother imagine.what he.would do to yours? Tell her to change her phone number. Do not talk to him or see him. If he keeps pursuing her then involve the police. This guys a nutcade. if she really ignores him he will find a new lady film to terrorize. Plus. I know its your mother but there may have been other things happening. Just stay away from the nutcase.

Answer 3

It is a shame your mother chose to date a man with a history of domestic violence.



Hitting your mother would be something they could hold him on, but typically only if it left a mark at the time. Otherwise a restraining order is her best bet.

Answer 4

Hi

Sorry to read this stressful question, you and your mother need to go to the police station, ask to speak to the highest ranking officer there. ALso ask for a female officer to be present. Did your mother get the name of the officer who initially took the report. Tell them that the car still has his urine (DNA) in the car. Take photos of any sacrring abrasions on her neck.



Then get a restraining order.

Answer 5

go to court and file that restraining order